Stop explaining your life. Start living it.
Therapy for gay men, creatives and high-achievers. No "blank slate" stares. No generic worksheets. Just direct, no-BS strategy for people tired of performing success but feeling empty.
No insurance. On purpose.
No diagnosis codes, no audits, no session limits. Most clients get 50–80% back out-of-network.
I don't do the "blank slate" stare.
Traditional therapy asks you to talk to a wall. I don't. I am an active participant in your recovery. You aren't paying for a nod; you are paying for perspective.
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Skip the "Gay 101." Deconstruct the "sinner" narrative and rebuild after a high-control church.
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Walking Therapy
For those who process better in motion. Side by side, outside the clinical room.
Individual Telehealth
Direct, high-impact sessions from your own space. Secure, private, out-of-network.
The "in-network" cost
Using insurance means a permanent psychiatric diagnosis on your record, audited notes, and a company deciding how many sessions you get.
The private advantage
Our work stays completely between us. No diagnosis codes, no audits, no limits. Most clients get 50–80% back via out-of-network benefits — I provide the monthly superbill.
Can I get reimbursed?
Yes — most clients get 50–80% back using out-of-network benefits. I hand you a monthly superbill; you submit it in minutes.
How fast will you reply?
Same workday, always. Even when I'm unavailable, you'll hear from me so you're not left wondering.
Do we have to click?
Yes — that's what the free 15-minute consult is for. No forms, no pitch, just a conversation to see if we fit.
Why don't you take insurance?
On purpose. Nobody in a billing office should decide what your care is worth — or read your notes.
Fifteen free minutes. I'll be honest with you — it's kind of my thing.
Gay therapist NYC · LGBTQ+ affirming therapy · Out-of-network telehealth in New York & Florida